I think that there are a lot of truths written here, and indeed, a granola bar is a kindness most of us can afford. However, I think something that should be said here, is most homeless are suffering mental illness, have been stigmatized and rejected for it by an overburdened healthcare system, exhausted family, and friends who couldn't be bothered. I also believe acceptance has to come into play here and patience. I have cared for many homeless people, managed to help them stay safe and in the housing provided by simply treating them with dignity and not hostility because they won't shower daily or eat when I dictate. Too many folks think if the homeless won't do it my way, then to heck with them! You can't control them. Learning to help them on their terms is something we need to focus on.
I think that there are a lot of truths written here, and indeed, a granola bar is a kindness most of us can afford. However, I think something that should be said here, is most homeless are suffering mental illness, have been stigmatized and rejected for it by an overburdened healthcare system, exhausted family, and friends who couldn't be bothered. I also believe acceptance has to come into play here and patience. I have cared for many homeless people, managed to help them stay safe and in the housing provided by simply treating them with dignity and not hostility because they won't shower daily or eat when I dictate. Too many folks think if the homeless won't do it my way, then to heck with them! You can't control them. Learning to help them on their terms is something we need to focus on.